The playbook that built your company is breaking your family. I know, because it nearly broke mine.
The things that work in business are a complete disaster at home. Your spouse feels far away. Your kids go quiet when you walk in.
You worked tremendously hard and reached your top goals. They didn’t give you what you thought they would, and you don’t know where to look next.
You’re exhausted from swinging back and forth between success and failure, joy and despair, hope and hopelessness.
At work, you fix things from the outside in. At home, that’s whack‑a‑mole: solve one fight and another pops up right away. The Flow Method starts with you. When your tank is full, you show up differently, and your spouse, your kids and your team respond to that.
It’s the business playbook, pointed at the people you love. It’s exhausting, and it doesn’t last.
When a kid’s love tank is full, their behavior is good. When it’s empty, it’s bad. Just like you.
“The part of me that made me a great fighter also made me a terrible mother.”
I’m a 9x national karate champion and a lawyer. I was also shouting at my kids every single day. More than anything else, I wanted to be a better mother.
The Flow Method is how we got peace in our house. Now I teach it one on one to founders and executives who are done winning at work and losing at home.
We went from daily emotional chaos to peace in the house. That’s something money can’t buy.
Since working with you, Tanner’s cut back on gaming… He’s so motivated, connected to himself and wants to live life fully. He’s a different person. As for me, I no longer feel like I’m chasing monkeys.
“Lisa is the real deal. You know I’m gonna be talking to her for the rest of my life, right?”
“Of all the things I’m using or doing — therapy, art, medication, reading — having sessions with you… has been the single most effective measure of growth.”
“I am extremely grateful. You are a powerful teacher.”
Why 12 months: Habits formed over decades don’t change in a few weeks. A year gives you time to practise, fall, and practise again, until the new way becomes how you live.
My promise: I show up 100%. You show up too. Things change.
You’re the one with the most power in the house. When you stop swinging between extremes, your family stops bracing for the next swing. And one session a month can include your spouse or child.
We don’t dig up the past for its own sake. We work on what’s happening at home this week, and the one thing you’ll do about it.
No. It’s one on one coaching in the Flow Method. If you’re dealing with substance abuse or mental health issues, I recommend you see a therapist, either instead of coaching or alongside it.