For founders & executives

Business is great.
Home is falling apart.

The playbook that built your company is breaking your family. I know, because it nearly broke mine.

FLOW UNIVERSE
Does this sound like you?

You win at work. Then you walk through your own front door.

01
The playbook backfires at home

The things that work in business are a complete disaster at home. Your spouse feels far away. Your kids go quiet when you walk in.

02
Success didn’t bring the joy

You worked tremendously hard and reached your top goals. They didn’t give you what you thought they would, and you don’t know where to look next.

03
The roller coaster won’t stop

You’re exhausted from swinging back and forth between success and failure, joy and despair, hope and hopelessness.

Where you are
The roller coaster. Force of will, swings of success and failure.
Where you’re going
Flow. Relaxed and focused, at work and at home.
The inside‑out approach

One small thing on the inside fixes everything on the outside.

At work, you fix things from the outside in. At home, that’s whack‑a‑mole: solve one fight and another pops up right away. The Flow Method starts with you. When your tank is full, you show up differently, and your spouse, your kids and your team respond to that.

YOU one small thing SPOUSE & KIDS YOUR TEAM
Outside in
Tackle each problem separately.

It’s the business playbook, pointed at the people you love. It’s exhausting, and it doesn’t last.

Inside out · the Flow Method
Do the one small thing that solves everything.

When a kid’s love tank is full, their behavior is good. When it’s empty, it’s bad. Just like you.

Lisa MK Ling
I’ve been where you are
“The part of me that made me a great fighter also made me a terrible mother.”

I’m a 9x national karate champion and a lawyer. I was also shouting at my kids every single day. More than anything else, I wanted to be a better mother.

The Flow Method is how we got peace in our house. Now I teach it one on one to founders and executives who are done winning at work and losing at home.

JD, LLM, ARCT Author of 3 books on flow, incl. Love Tank Parenting Clients in 20+ countries
What changes at home
We went from daily emotional chaos to peace in the house. That’s something money can’t buy.
Pawan Patil — Senior Economist, World Bank
Since working with you, Tanner’s cut back on gaming… He’s so motivated, connected to himself and wants to live life fully. He’s a different person. As for me, I no longer feel like I’m chasing monkeys.
Mike Long — Father, Outdoorsman & Executive
“Lisa is the real deal. You know I’m gonna be talking to her for the rest of my life, right?”
Tanner Long, age 16
“Of all the things I’m using or doing — therapy, art, medication, reading — having sessions with you… has been the single most effective measure of growth.”
Irita V., Arlington, Virginia
“I am extremely grateful. You are a powerful teacher.”
Cyrill Gutsch, Founder & CEO, Parley for the Oceans
The Flow Method

Six steps from the roller coaster to flow.

  1. PAUSE
    Quiet the noise
  2. PRESENT
    Find your calm
  3. PIVOT
    Know what you want
  4. POWER
    Remember who you are
  5. TRUST
    Let love in
  6. CREATE
    Flow with life
What you get each month

One on one with Lisa. Built around your life and your family.

  • 4 private 45‑minute sessions a month, applying the Flow Method to your situation
  • The Flow tools that fit you right now, so you don’t have to try them all
  • The Flow app: one small thing a day for body, mind and spirit
  • Bring your family in: one session a month can include your spouse or child
Founders Flow
12 months, one on one with Lisa
4 private 45‑minute sessions a month, your Flow tools and the Flow app
$1,200 USD / month
or $12,000 USD paid in full Save $2,400

Why 12 months: Habits formed over decades don’t change in a few weeks. A year gives you time to practise, fall, and practise again, until the new way becomes how you live.

My promise: I show up 100%. You show up too. Things change.

See if this fits your family
Fair questions

This is coaching, not therapy.

How does coaching me change my spouse and kids?

You’re the one with the most power in the house. When you stop swinging between extremes, your family stops bracing for the next swing. And one session a month can include your spouse or child.

Do I have to open Pandora’s box?

We don’t dig up the past for its own sake. We work on what’s happening at home this week, and the one thing you’ll do about it.

Is this therapy?

No. It’s one on one coaching in the Flow Method. If you’re dealing with substance abuse or mental health issues, I recommend you see a therapist, either instead of coaching or alongside it.

The discovery call · 20 minutes

You tell me what’s happening at home. I tell you honestly whether the Flow Method fits.

Book your 20-min discovery call
Feel the Love Within · Create from the inside out